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She’s
known as “Mom” by Mary and Evans
Jones; as “Ninny” by Brett,
Karena, McKenna,
Jacob, Samuel and Oliver; and to the rest of us she’s
known as Louise, the 95 year old who gives us a picture of
Titus 2:3-5 - “Teach the older women to be reverent in the way
they live, not to be slanderers or
addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Then
they can train the younger women to love their husbands and
children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home,
to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no
one will malign the word of God.”
Louise was
born in 1911 in Shamrock, Texas. Her father deserted his wife
and six children when she was young and her mother brought the
children home to raise them at her parents’ cattle ranch in
Dalhart, Texas. The children, along
with two maiden aunts and a few unmarried uncles,
helped with the outside chores on the farm; the canning,
making sausage, making soap, the butchering, and the chore
that was Louise’s least favorite, the milking, the separating,
and all the clean-up afterward.
The first
of her siblings to marry, at age 19 Louise was wed to
Ora Taylor, a twin like she was, in
New Mexico after finishing
high school. Ora and Louise attended a tent revival
within the first year of their marriage and Louise responded
to an “altar call”, an invitation by a minister to step
forward publicly, with a heart of faith and repentance, to
receive the gift of salvation from God. She grew in godly
character and thrived spiritually over the years, despite her
husband's resistance to the gospel. The couple had two
children,
Mary and Jim, who they brought from Oklahoma to California in
1937 in a Model A Coupe. Louise told Mary that the family was
quite a sight, real life Okies! They crammed the young couple
with two babies and an aunt into one seat car with a rumble
seat.
The Dust
Bowl didn’t affect life in California
so Ora went to work
as a finish carpenter and cabinet
maker, while Louise raised the children and worked for
a time packing oranges in a packing house, as a seamstress in
a coat factory where she was paid by the bound button hole,
and performing alterations on bridal gowns at Buffum’s, a
department store. When Ora became disabled thirty years into
their marriage, Louise faithfully took care of him for the
next thirty five years until he passed away, shortly after
their move to Evans’ and
Mary's home in Santa Ynez. Louise began attending Community
Church of the Santa Ynez Valley with Brett,
one of her four grandchildren, and together they interceded
in prayer for the salvation of our dear Evans and Mary. The
entire family has been an integral and beloved part of our
church body for many years now.
These
days, Louise tries to stay home due to severe dizziness, but
she says that she would rather be outside gardening or with
her church family. “Tell them all I’m feeling good and staying
on my feet,” she
says and
then laughingly adds “Just tell them I’m sick in the
head!” Her characteristically cheerful and gentle spirit has
deeply impacted her family for Christ and she enjoys every
moment she has with them.
She loves
to hear the grandkids playing
handball in her front yard. When Brett asks her if the
children bother her, she responds “They’d bother me if they
didn’t come over!”
Mary calls
her precious mother a true Proverbs 31 woman,
faithful, hardworking, not given to gossip or slander. “I
remember standing near my mom and doing dishes while I was a
teenager and when I’d
complain
about someone, she would always say ‘If
you can’t say something good about someone, don’t say
anything at all!’”, says Mary.
Louise’s favorite hymns are “The Old Rugged Cross” and
“Amazing
Grace”, choices which speak volumes of the beauty, faith, and
witness of a woman blessed to walk closely with the Lord
for seventy five years, thus far.
*Interview
by Anjie Park |